Naturally Me and My Natural Ways

In case you haven't heard...

2011-12-20T13:24:00.000-07:00

I posted this on my other blog,
the one I frequent far more than this one,
but figured just in case I'd post it here too,
you know, so we're all on the same page.

Phew, secrets finally out...to everyone I hope.

Merry Christmas!

Rules to being a red head, part 1

2011-10-18T12:26:00.002-06:00

I hate to say it, but as a red head, there is one fashion rule that should always be followed.

Never, and I mean NEVER wear red, pink, or orange. And yes, that means your favorite red shirt, pink sweater, and orange shoes should never be worn, and definitely not together. But really, for the sake of looking a little bit fashionable, just don't do it, it looks bad, really really bad.

There is no arguing this fact. I cringe every time I see a red head in one of these colors, these colors just don't work for you. In fact, I kind of feel bad when red heads think they look good in it. You do not. Accept it and move on.

I get that it kind of stinks, there are some really cute red and pink things out there, but that's just the way it is. Life goes on, all the while you'll be looking a million times better thanks to this new found unasked for knowledge. And for that I say, you're welcome.

The only red I've ever owned was my car, and even then I questioned if, as a red head, that was an acceptable thing to do. I decided, it was.

Weekend Workout Series

2011-10-07T09:59:00.001-06:00

I feel like I've stayed in vacation mode all week. My suitcase still isn't unpacked, my house is a little chaotic, and waking up in the morning has become increasingly more difficult than it already was. These things don't work well together.

Regardless, life still continues and workouts still must be done, although, I feel like I've somehow failed at both this week.

Here is a favorite workout for this weekend, and not because it's hard, but because unintentionally, this workout made me lose weight. What's not to love about that, right? It's all about interval training, and surprisingly enough, it makes your workout FLY by, even when with every second you're praying for it to be over.

Treadmill workout:

Min. Speed:

0-1:30 6.5

1:30-2 7

2-3:30 6.5

3:30-4 7.5

4-5:30 6.5

5:30-6 8

6-7:30 6.5

7:30-8 8.5

8-9:30 6.5

9:30-10 9

10-11:30 6.5

11:30-12 9.5

12:13:30 6.5

13:30-14 10

Repeat 2-3 times. I've found this is the easiest way for me to get my four mile run in when I have to do it on the treadmill. Always switching it up makes for a quick workout, and the intervals make sure you get a good burn in. Want to run longer or shorter, just modify to fit your needs.

If you're not a runner, try this workout on the elliptical or bike, which ever machine is your favorite, I prefer the treadmill because I like to run...or at least that's what I tell myself so it gets done.

Maybe you'll like running more if you do it in a skirt? Have you seen Nike's running skirts? I spotted these at the outlet store a few weeks ago and I about died laughing when I saw them. But hey, if you need to feel pretty to run, I won't judge. Just remembering, it's ok to sweat!

Thoughts on sharing a birthday

2011-09-30T08:18:00.000-06:00

I put this on my other blog today, but I figured birthday's only come around once a year, so why not really shout it to the whole world that today's mine AND my hubby's birthday.

Whenever I tell people that John and I have the same birthday, people typically think it's cool for all of 2 seconds before they start feeling bad that we have to share our day. It's bizarre to me why people would feel bad about this. I mean, I guess I get it, but still, sharing your birthday with your husband is awesome, not terrible. It's like a double holiday for us, and we both get to feel "important" for 24 hours together. I kind of love it. And it's kind of awesome.

Our favorite thing to do is pretend we're being overly nice to each other by doing overly nice things for each other by saying, "ok, but only because it's your birthday." Yeah, we think we're kind of funny that way.

To make sharing our birthday's even better, we've actually contemplated having all of our children born on September 30th, too. We'll let you know how that goes...

Oh, and if you were looking for a good workout this weekend, just go run a few miles (at least 3, ok?) for me outside, if you weather is anything like here, it's PERFECT fall running weather. That can be your birthday gift to me!

Happy Friday!

Thursday Wish List

2011-09-29T13:01:00.000-06:00

1, 2, 3, 4

I have a gift card to DSW that I have to use by tomorrow, otherwise, it's SOL. I never say no to getting a new pair of shoes, but the only problem is, I'm having a hard time finding a pair that I actually love. When have I not found a pair of shoes that I love? Right. When I can actually get a pair.

I've narrowed down my choices, although, I do have to say, I'm not totally crazy about any of these. Should I be? Help me pick a pair, will ya? Do you love any of these? Or, should I just go back to the drawing board? Did that just feel like we played 21 questions? No way, right?

Hump day

2011-09-27T09:52:00.000-06:00

Shirt: Ross, Pants: Loft (similar), Shoes: Sperry Top-Sider, Scarf and Necklace: F21

I feel like today is my hump day, because we're headed out of town on Thursday, which can't come soon enough. The weather is finally nice here, but that doesn't mean I'm not excited to leave this state for a few days. But what am I talking about, I'm always excited to leave this state and go on vacation, especially when it means I'm going home. Which is kind of confusing since this is home now. But my my real home, you know, where I spent 20 years of life, that's really home, and I don't think any place else will ever come close.

Oh Utah, how I've missed you. And let me tell you, those are words that I don't speak very often, but I suppose being away from home for over a year forces them out of me, and surprisingly enough, I think I'm ok with that.

Weekend date

2011-09-26T08:22:00.000-06:00

Saturday afternoon my hubby took me on a date to the state fair, where classy people watching and fried food are aplenty. I'm not sure if it's the food, or knowing that the finer people of the state will be out in full force that is more appealing about the fair, but either way, it's always a good time.

My heart was set on the ferris wheel, while hubby's was set on a fried twinkie. Being the mean wife I am, I merely mentioned he needed to take a good look around him before he decided he truly wanted to ~~waste~~ spend $6 on a heart attack. Thank goodness that was said after our ferris wheel ride. Apparently that comment was enough to crushed his fair dreams that day. And here I was thinking I was doing him a favor. Thank goodness there's always next year, right?

What did you do this weekend? Did anyone try running stadiums? I hope you're still sore if you did!

Someone asked me how long I usually run stadiums for? I'd say I typically spend between 30-40 minutes running a few sets from start to finish. The stairs I run are SUPER steep, so I only do two sets and it still takes me that long, but I think it's safe to say these stairs equate to double the length of a normal stadium. I hope that helps.

Weekend Workout Series

2011-09-23T08:40:00.000-06:00

Shoes: Nike Free XT

Every Saturday morning, you will find me and my hubby at the middle school behind our house, running stadiums. Most people view stadiums as torture. As do I, but it's torture that I LOVE to inflict upon myself because it's one of the best workouts you will ever get. Ever!

It combines cardio with a major glute (buns) and gastrocnemius (calf) toning workout, not to mention you're going to burn a butt load (pun intended) of calories.

So, go find some stairs this weekend and run your heart out, your buns and legs will thank you, I promise!

Thursday Wish List

2011-09-22T12:38:00.000-06:00

via polyvore

Oh how I love this outfit, but not for the price. Some day I'll have money...

Multi-Purposing

2011-09-20T12:40:00.000-06:00

Maxi: Target, Jacket: Express Blues (ions and ions ago...pretty sure it's from 7th grade), Belt: Target, Shoes: Madden Girl via DSW

My favorite thing about this dress, besides the fact that I don't have to shave my legs when I'm wearing it {gasp}, it's that I'm pretty sure it's intended to be worn as a swimsuit cover up. When I bought it back in April, I found it nicely hanging next to all of the swimsuits. Which makes me feel like my assumption is more or less true than it would be had this dress been hanging up at the other end of the store, where normal clothes were displayed.

I like clothes that serve more than one purpose apparently. It's more bang for your buck that way!

Weekend

2011-09-19T08:34:00.000-06:00

Sweater: Express, Shirt: JCrew, Skirt: Made by me, Belt: Thrifted, Shoes: DSW, Earrings: F21

I have a stash of projects that stare at me everyday, begging to get done. Alas, I just stare right back and walk away. Until this past week, I finally took a few untouched projects to town and whipped up something that I'm at least proud enough of I dared wear it in public. Every time I looked down, I laughed that I was wearing the fabric that was intended to recover my ottoman. But thankfully, I don't think I was walking around looking like a couch cushion all day, so I figured it was ok.

Making the skirt wore me out, so the rest of the weekend we just sat around, watched football, and ate delicious food. I think that's how weekends are supposed to be spent, being lazy and eating good food. And now it's back to work, where life isn't quite as exciting.

Happy Monday morning!

Weekend Workout Series

2011-09-16T13:43:00.002-06:00

This is one of my favorite routines to do after a good run (or any cardio for that matter) because it's a great way to add a little strength training into your workout.

This is the 3, 2, 1 approach to muscle toning.

30 basic crunches
30 side crunches (each side)
30 second plank
30 push-ups
30 dumbbell curls
30 triceps dips

1 minute break (or, to up the calorie burn, do jumping jacks for a minute)

repeat each set doing 20 of each

1 minute break

repeat each set doing 10 of each

And that is what I call the 3, 2, 1 approach. Your abs and arms will thank you for this one, promise!

Thursday Wish List

2011-09-15T09:39:00.000-06:00

via pinterest

This is definitely a wish list outfit, seeing that the shoes along cost around oh, $1,130. I think this is an outfit that could be easily recreated out of your own closet though. Perhaps next week, when I start wearing more than just pj's all day long, I'll try it out.

And this is why I shouldn't work from home, I find no motivation to get ready for the day. My poor husband.

Weekend Workout Series

2011-09-09T09:10:00.000-06:00

Yesterday morning on my run, I felt like I had an epiphany of sorts, and my mind couldn't stop racing with ideas, no pun intended.

Aside from loving fashion, I probably love working out just a little more. Health and wellness are my passion, always have been, and hopefully always will be. I'm kind of a sucker for a good workout, and enjoy getting all sweaty and pushing myself to the max. Finding new workouts excites me, especially when they're really good.

So, Friday's I'm going to start featuring a weekend workout series, and give you all a fabulous workout you can do over the weekend to get your booty in shape, off the couch, and feeling all nice and healthy like. Who am I to qualify to give you a good workout? No, I'm not a personal trainer (at least not yet), but I did work at fat camp, so I think that qualifies me, right?

I've mentioned this workout before on my other blog, but it really is that good that I'm kicking this series off with this one. So, without further ado, here is this weekends workout. I found it off of this blog, and after doing it a few times and loving it, I've modified it a bit to make it that much better.

3 1/2 laps, jog
1/2 lap, sprint
1 lap, jog
15 burpees
15 bench push ups
1 lap, jog
15 walking lunges with back kick & knee lift
15 jump squats
1 lap, jog
30 bench tricep dips
1/2 lap, jog
1/2 lap, sprint
45 squats & jab
45 mountain climbers
1/2 lap, light jog
1/2 lap, sprint
30 tricep dips
30 modified push ups
2 laps, jog
1 cool down lap, walk

If you dare try it out, let me know how you did.

Happy weekend everyone!

Thursday Wish List

2011-09-08T17:56:00.000-06:00

I've decided to make Thursday my wish list day, so, here are just a few of the things I've been eyeing this week:

1-Antrho

2-Gap

3-Ruche

4-DSW

5-Melie Bianco

What do you have your eye on?

Clearly not 21

2011-09-07T08:25:00.000-06:00

Shirt: Banana Republic, Sweater: Ross, Jeans: Banana Republic, Belt: Thrifted, Feather Earrings: F21 (similar)

While at the mall last night, I mentioned to the hubby that I wanted to stop by a store to check something out. When we got to the store, and he realized what store I was actually talking about, he took one look at me, laughed, told me I'm too old to shop there, and proceeded to mock me the rest of the time we were shopping. Perhaps Forever 21 is for high school teeny boppers, but where else am I supposed to get feather earrings for a whopping $3?

Stealing feathers off of the birds in our backyard isn't an option.

Why I actually needed feather earrings is beyond me, but after seeing them in the store last weekend, I couldn't get my mind off of them. And that right there means it's ok to go back and buy, it clearly wasn't impulsive. The giraffe shirt wouldn't have been either, but unfortunately (or fortunately), I couldn't find it in the store. I think my hubby is grateful for that. He was kind of hoping for rhino's instead.

So, to punish him---yes, sometimes 27 year olds need punishing--for all of his mockery tonight, I cheated by making this for dinner instead of something homemade and delicious. Sadly, I don't think he minded one bit.

Tuesday the new Monday

2011-09-06T08:00:00.000-06:00

Skirt: Thrifted, Shirt: Thrifted, Sweater: Express, Shoes: DSW

This past weekend taught me a few things: I need long weekends as much as I need air. They're essential for my survival. And, if only every work week could begin with Tuesday and end with half day Friday's, life would be a little bit sweeter. Too bad that's only this week and then it's back to normal five day workweeks until Thanksgiving. Yikes. That seems like a long time to go without a break. Which is why I have a vacation planned in a few weeks. Who was I kidding to think I could actually make it until then without a day or two, or five off?

Summer may be over, but vacations sure aren't!

Straight to Fall

2011-09-05T10:43:00.000-06:00

Shirt: H&M, Pants: H&M, Shoes: DSW (similar), Necklace/Earrings:Gift

The hubby and I ran stadiums this morning, why I love torturing myself like that I will never know, but it is what it is, and I'm kind of obsessed. I went out in shorts and a tank top, like I do everyday, but lo and behold I was shivering the whole time. It took until the last five minutes to actually work up a sweat, usually it's in the first five seconds. It was a nice change, but now I'm starting to wonder if I'm really ready for summer to be over already?

Fall is upon us here in the OK. There was no gradual change in the weather this year. It was blistering hot one day, cold the next. And now I turn to the shower to warm me up!

We're off on a picnic. Enjoy your Labor Day!

Day 21

2011-09-04T10:21:00.000-06:00

Wear a killer outfit

Here's the Look:

Shirt: Gift, Pants: Thrifted, Shoes: Old Navy, Necklace: Gift

I don't know if this outfit constitutes itself as a killer or not, but when I tell you those pants only cost me $4, I feel like it's justified as one.

We fell asleep to pouring rain and the sounds of thunder last night, and woke up to overcast skies and 66 degree weather. Yesterday it was 100 degrees. We went straight from the heat of the summer, to a crisp fall overnight. And it's lovely.

I almost feel the need to go put on a big sweater, curl up in a blanket, sip hot chocolate, and read a good book. Fall is upon us, and I'm hoping it's here to stay.

Well, the 21 day challenge is finally over. And by finally, I mean it's time to let regular programming resume and it's back to getting dressed on my own. Stick around awhile why don't cha.

Day 20

2011-09-03T08:39:00.000-06:00

Wear Sunday Shoes:

Here's the Look:

Jacket: Roxy, Shorts: F21, Shoes: Nordstrom, Jewelry: Gifts

I figured I should showcase my real self every now and then on this little blog, right? Well, that last picture about sums it up. That's a typical "Amy face" right there. Now that we have that out of the way, we can proceed.

For all of you cat haters out there, I hope this doesn't make you like me any less. But, look, he matched my outfit and was basically begging to be part of my picture. He keeps the mice away, and I like cats. Deal with it!

In other news, aren't those shoes just fabulous? They were bridesmaids shoes for my dear friend Steph's wedding a few years back, we all had matching shoes, not dresses, it was lovely. Every time I wear these shoes, I always feel a little sassy and bold, and for that, and many other reasons, they will always remain one of my most favorite pairs of shoes. Bold and sassy just call to me.

Oh, and lest I forget, go Cougs!

Day 19

2011-09-02T07:43:00.001-06:00

Wear something on your head

Here's the look:

Maxi worn as skirt: Target, Shirt: Ross, Earrings/Necklace: Gift, Scarf remix item: Grandma's (bonus for me, I wore it four times during the challenge)

I'm unleashing my inner hippie today and thinking the 60's and I could have been great friends. Great friends I tell ya!

So, last night I took dinner to a lady I go to church with, and I've decided there's nothing better than engaging in conversations with the elderly. In fact, every morning while I'm getting ready at the gym, I overhear conversations by all of the ladies who are off to water aerobics. They don't know it, but every morning I walk away feeling inspired by their words of wisdom. I just love the elderly, but I'm not looking forward to getting old. Not one bit.

Have you chatted it up with any elderly lately? Aren't they just the cutest things, ever?! It sure makes me miss all of my grandparent's. If yours are still around, call them up right now! You won't regret it, promise!

Kind of random, I know, but whatever, it's Friday!

And because it's Friday, my husband and I totally busted out this song this morning. Bless her heart, it's so annoying!

Day 18

2011-09-01T08:11:00.000-06:00

Statement Jewelry

Shirt: Old Navy, Jeans: Hollister, Statement item: Made by me, following this tutorial, Broach: Thrifted

Look, I don't own any real statement jewelry, so I made up my own, so what? If I owned statement jewelry, you can best be sure I'd walk around making statements everywhere I go. Oh wait, I already do that, I have red hair and I'm five foot eight and almost always wear heels. Yep, I can never get lost in a crowd. That's a good and very bad thing, let me assure you of that.

Maybe one day I'll own a fabulous piece of jewelry that will draw attention and say, BAM look at me, and it won't include an old t-shirt that's strewn about my neck! Rather, something classy and really worth my money. I love me some class, can't you tell? But until I'm worthy of such things, I'll stick to the things my momma blessed me with and we'll call it good. And let's be clear here, I'm not referring to that old t-shirt.

Day 17

2011-08-31T08:29:00.001-06:00

Fix something in my repair pile.

Shirt: Thrifted skirt, Jeans: Loft, Shoes: Gap, Necklace: Express, Earrings: Gift

Once upon a time I stumbled across this post and it was love at first sight. I knew I had to find a skirt just like that, so I could make a dress just like hers. After all, it looked like it was easy as pie to make. Although, have you ever made pie? It's really not THAT easy.

I searched high and low for the perfect pleated skirt at all of the thrift stores around here, and let me tell you, Oklahoma has a lot. But somehow, by the end of the day, I always turned up empty handed.

And then I discovered this skirt:

It was practically perfect, except one thing, it was far too short to make a dress out of it, unless I wanted to look like a hooch, which I did not. Sorry if that's your style. So, the hubs suggested I make a shirt out of it instead.

So that it what I did. I'm kind of kicking myself right now though, I should have just left it as a skirt, it was perfect, and now I'm afraid the whole $2.50 that I spent on it has gone to waste. Such is life.

I guess that just means I'm going to need this dress after all.
I do have a birthday coming up...

Courtesy of Shabby Apple

Don't you hate when you do something that is irreversible? I sure do.

Day 16

2011-08-30T07:44:00.000-06:00

Menswear

I figured since I already wore my hubby's shirt to work the other day, I'd leave his closet alone on this one. That is, until it came to accessories...

Here's the Look:

Shirt: Thrifted, Jeans: Gap (similar), Suspenders: Macys, Hat: Wal-Mart (only the best for our wedding)

Say hello to my very first thrift store purchase ever! I got this little gem while living in Hawaii back in 2005. We'd drive a good 45 minutes just to go thrift shopping. We thought it was cool to go to Savers and find island treasures, and this was mine. An Aikahi Titans little league t-shirt. I'm sure it was once some cute little polynesian boys, which would explain why it's always been a little small on me, but I wear it anyway, and every time I do, memories of that summer live on!

And, to give real justice to the menswear in this outfit, and my husband some credit for suppling me with more goods, I threw on this suspenders and hat--both from our wedding and haven't been worn since--to add a little flair.

This outfit is totally out of my element, but like I've said before, pair anything with confidence and heads will turn. Usually that's a good thing.

How do you feel about girls in suspenders? I'm kind of digging it. But I can't say this will be a consistent look for me.

Day 15

2011-08-29T08:15:00.002-06:00

New Hair-Do.

An old coworkers once complimented me for my hair being different every single day. That doesn't ring true anymore, but once upon a time, I really did "do" my hair a different way most days of the week. And not because I'm good at doing hair, in fact, it's the exact opposite. What people thought was me "doing my hair" was actually me not doing my hair. Hence, it looked different all the time.

It was great.

Now, I'm pretty much in a rut of having my hair either straight or curly. By the end of the day, it's always in a ponytail because it's so blasted hot out here, I can't take it being down any longer.

The other day my sister sent me this picture and told me I should do my hair like this. So, I figured I'd give it a try, beautiful, right?

You win some, you lose some.

I feel like a 25 year old little Swiss girl.

But whatever, at least it's off my neck. This would be day 60 of it being in the triple digits. Sick!

Here's the look:

Top: Ruche, Jeans: Express, Necklace: Gift, Earrings: Gift

I'm off to my yodeling lessons now. Happy Monday everyone!

Day 14

2011-08-28T10:53:00.001-06:00

Be a copycat and get inspiration from someone else.

I'm coping this look I found off of everyone's favorite, A Cup of Jo:

How cute is she?

So, here is my best attempt at being a copycat. Now, if only I had that necklace...

Got to love the Oklahoma wind

Shirt: JCrew (similar), Skirt: Thrifted, Shoes: City Classified (similar), Bangles: H&M, Necklace and Earings: Gift, Belt: Thrifted

Note to self: When the tag on your clothing says dry clean only, it's wise to follow directions.

I tend to think I can do my own thing ~~a lot~~ sometimes. Oh, it says dry clean only? Eh, please, I'm sure the washing machine isn't going to ruin it. And I was right, it didn't. But this I do know, ironing pleats that disappeared after washing, gets old real fast.

Noted!

Day 13

2011-08-27T08:00:00.000-06:00

Neutral base with a pop of color

Here's the look:

Top: H&M, Pants: Loft, Shoes: Forever Young, Necklace: Express, Scarf: Grandma's (remix item)

I'm kind of in love with these shoes. I've had them forever, but never really wear them simply because I just don't wear them. They're kind of old lady looking, with a hint of vintage flair, and maybe it's that combination that I love? Who knew?

I hope you're all enjoying your weekend, I live for weekends!

Day 12

2011-08-26T07:56:00.001-06:00

Jazz up jeans

Here's the Look, and for the record, I'd probably be ok with never wearing this top again:

Jeans: Gap (similar), Top: Forever 21, Shoes: Banana Republic, Belt: Target

So, last tonight the hubs and I decided to hit up the outlet malls. They just opened up not 10 minutes from our house, (that makes me love OK just a smidge), and the last time we went was opening weekend. The place was a zoo.

Who goes to the outlets on a Thursday night? No one. So, I knew it would be the perfect time to go peruse the stores without the hassle of a crowd.

Thank goodness no one was there, because upon getting out of the car, my skirt somehow tucked itself into my undies and I was basically left flashing the world. That's right, my skirt was tucked into my underwear for the whole world to see. I'm sure the few cars that drove by got a good laugh out of that one. I know I did. But like I said, thank goodness hardly anyone was there. That could have been totally awkward.

I had an instant flash back to when I was a sophomore in high school and my friends and I thought we were cool for going to lunch with the seniors. I was cool for all of two seconds. I walked out of the bathroom with toilet paper hanging out of my pants and no one bothered to tell me until AFTER lunch was over. I stood in line with it just dangling there. And the gross thing is, it wasn't even my toilet paper. The person before me had left it around the seat and I was too grossed out to touch it. That's what I get for hovering. Clearly I had true friends back then.

And on that note, TGIF!

Update: Yes, I know my second button is undone, thanks Kristen for being a true friend and informing me of such. If you didn't notice, pretend you never read this. Mornings aren't my thing.

Day 11

2011-08-25T09:09:00.002-06:00

Wear a dress or skirt.

I think I do this most days of the week, dresses are my staple for work and play. In this Oklahoma heat, they really are the only thing that is truly comfortable right now.

Here's the Look:

Dress: JCrew, Cardigan: Forever 21, Belt: Thrifted, Shoes: DSW

I thought I should give this dress one last hurrah before it gets shoved to the back of the closet until next summer. Does the whole no white after labor day rule still apply? I'm kind of thinking anything goes these days. That said, I'm sure this dress still won't see the light of day until then anyway. It has summer dress written all over it.

Thanks for all of your fabulous suggestions regarding that odd vest/jacket of mine yesterday. Juries still out on what I'm actually going to do with it. If I turn it into something amazing, you all get credit.

Moving on...

Since coming back from vacation on Monday night I just can't get into the swing of things. Every morning I wake up exhausted and confused, at work I stare blankly at the computer screen for hours on end, and yesterday morning while I was getting ready at the gym, I quickly discovered I left my bra and underwear at home. It was awesome! But today the hubs and I had a dance party in the car on the way into school/work, hopefully that means we're almost over our post-vacation depression.

We'll Never Stop

2011-08-24T18:43:00.000-06:00

Has anyone else watched this commercial and thought, wow, I really do NEED an ipad2 in my life?

No, it's just me? I hope not.

Day 10

2011-08-24T07:07:00.004-06:00

Today's challenge is to wear a closet orphan. Something that hasn't been touched in a while and is needing to either reenter my wardrobe or be banned forever.

I decided to go a little bold and pull something out of my closet that's been sitting there, untouched, unscathed, unworn for a. long. time. And this is what I came up with:

Here's the look:

Thrifted

Keep or ban? I kind of love it, in a grandma kind of way. And the best part is, I don't have to try to pair a shirt or pants with it, it's all right there for me. Genius!

Ok, ok, flattering and all as it may be, that's not really my outfit, shocker, I know! But when I spotted this baby at the thrift store a few weeks back, I couldn't say no. Just look at it. And look, it was free. That's right, I didn't spend one penny on it. Had it been a penny, I would have left it there, promise. For some reason though, I just couldn't leave the store without it. I mean, I could have, and I almost did, but the moment I realized it was a pant suit ensemble, and not a dress I had to take it. I also had three thoughts in mind for this prized procession (that term is used very loosely here).

1- Hello, halloween is coming up and this has all kinds of awesomeness written all over it (I kid you not when I tell you it gives me a wedgie when I wear it)

2- Free fabric that I'm sure I can put to good use some way or another

3- If I don't take it off the rack, someone else will, and perhaps they'll actually wear it. Really, I'm doing all human kind a favor by taking it out of the store.

My husband was so embarrassed by the outfit he wouldn't even let me go outside to take a picture. He must really love me!

So what closet orphan am I really sporting today.

Here's the real look, and then I'm going to ask you all to please tell me how I should wear this, because I'm totally clueless, hence it's been sitting in my closet untouched, unworn, price tag still on, for over two years.

Shirt: Costco (how I love that store) Jeans: Ann Taylor Loft, Vest: Dillards, years and years ago. Necklace: JCrew, Belt: Thrifted

So, what say you, how would you wear this thing? It's so long I almost feel like it looks like I'm wearing a towel from behind. I tried to pair it with a khaki pencil skirt, but seeing that it was longer than the skirt, it just didn't look right.

I've never felt so stumped over an item of clothing before...I probably should have left it in the store for that very reason, but something about it was calling my name. Now, I just need help figuring out how to actually wear the darn thing so I can call it's name. Suggestions and comments are VERY welcomed! If chucking it is your suggestion, that's fine too, because I may or may not be leaning towards that anyway.

Mwah!

Day 9

2011-08-23T09:10:00.001-06:00

Why is it that the moment you get back from vacation it feels like you never left? That's how I'm feeling right now as I sit at work, feeling like I never left this little desk of mine. Thankfully I have, the inbox, full of way too many emails, is proof that I really did go on vacation and leave the cares of work behind. And it was heaven.

Since yesterday I felt like an idiot taking pictures in my front yard, and today I was running late for work (what's new?) I took matters into my own hands to snap a few pictures, in the stairwell of my office building nonetheless. Don't worry, I wasn't worried about getting caught, it's Oklahoma, taking the stairs is the last thing that crosses these people's mind, trust me! Hence, we're one of the largest and most unhealthy states. Go figure!

Day 9's look is monochromatic, i.e. wearing one color or hue.

Here's the look:

Top: Husbands c/o AE, Skirt: Express-like a hundred years ago, Shoes: DSW

I'm totally wearing my husbands shirt today, and not because my baggage got lost AGAIN (second time this trip).

Day 8

2011-08-22T17:57:00.001-06:00

Dressy + Casual

Today's post is a little late in getting up, to which I blame Delta for making me fly all day to come back to this sauna that is Oklahoma City. Oh, to be home again and back to reality.

Todays look worked out perfectly for being in transit all day, since I usually dress all comfy cozy for flights anyway, it makes them more bearable. So, I decided what the hey, I'm back east where my wardrobe learned that classy is the next best thing, why not throw a blazer on and call it good.

So, on went the blazer, and upon my arrival home the photo shoot went a little something like this:

Heeey, take a picture of me...

Is this cheesy enough...?

Oh, hey neighbors, don't mind us, we're just out taking pictures of myself.

Do we want our picture taken together?

No, we're just taking them of me.

Thanks for the offer though.

Ok, that wasn't awkward or anything.

But maybe next time pictures will be taken in the backyard.

Blazer: Banana Republic, T-shirt: JCrew, Pants: H&M, Flip flops:Rainbows, Necklace: JCrew

I should have just stuck with this picture and called it good before I made a fool of myself...

And to that I say goodnight!

Day 7

2011-08-21T10:37:00.001-06:00

Layer accessories

Here's the look:

Pants: H&M, Top: JCrew, Bracelets: H&M and Sno of Sweden, Belt: Target, Headband: Belt, thrifted, Bag: DSW

The past few days have been fabulous, the hubs and I have been on vacation and I'm sad to head back to reality. Sleeping in, good food, being with family and friends, perfect weather, perfect scenery, a near perfect vacation. Although, we could have done without the sketchiness that is Baltimore and the five hour commute, (that should have been two), from Philly to DC. And sadly, it all ends today. Please don't make me go home just yet, I'm not ready to leave.

It really was a practically perfect, in every way, vacation. So long east coast. We'll be back soon.

Don't forget, today is the last day submit your guess for the giveaway. Ends at midnight CST.

Day 6

2011-08-20T09:44:00.000-06:00

Get creative, wear an item in an unexpected way.

Remember this post? The one where I mentioned I got hit on at the golf course with my hubby?

Well, here is the look that got me quite the compliment:

Yes, I wore that belt two days in a row. Like I said, sometimes an outfit just needs a little sumpin' sumpin'. And ~~a lot of the time~~ sometimes I wear the same thing multiple days in a row, as if I have nothing else to wear but what I wore the day before. Funny how that works.

So, what am I wearing in an unexpected way? Two dresses as one.
I turned the white dress into a skirt, and the blue dress into a shirt.

So creative.

Not! I steal all my ideas.

The best part of this outfit wasn't getting hit on and making my husband jealous, that was just the funny part, but rather knowing that if I got hot, I could just rip that white skirt/dress right off and I'd be left in nothing but a knee length. Would I actually do that in public? No. But the hubby might like it behind closed doors. Not that I'd know or anything...

Day 5

2011-08-19T08:44:00.000-06:00

Wear a belt.
I think I wear belts too much sometimes, but only because a belt can always add that missing touch to an outfit, and I like adding missing touches.

Here's the look:

After yesterday's ensemble, I felt the need to be a little plain jane today.

I can't say that's my favorite belt I own, but when I tell you it only cost me $.50, I become a little more fond of it. Another thrift shopping sucess. Thrift stores really are the best place to find fun, unique, and cheap belts. In fact, I'm off to the thrift store right now to see if I can't score anymore good deals. I love turning others trash into my treasures!

Don't forget to head over here for a chance to win a special delivery package from yours truly.

Happy Friday!

Day 4

2011-08-18T08:04:00.000-06:00

Color blocking.

Here's the look:

Yes, I'm fully aware the paint job on our porch looks awesome, and that I look like rainbow Brite. Color blocking and I may have some work to do. Just go with it.

Those bright blue pants have quickly become one of my favorite articles of clothing. They're bright, they're bold, and they've got some spunk. I love me a good thrift find.

Also, don't forget to head over here and take a guess at what's inside our special delivery packages for a chance to win. Who doesn't love free goodies?

Special Delivery

2011-08-17T19:13:00.000-06:00

Who doesn't love getting a good deal on something? Even better, something that's free? I've started couponing simply because it means I can get lots and lots of stuff for free, or close to free at least. Every free sample I see available online, I get. I mean, why not, it's free, right? I'm sure I can put a sample bag of dog food to good use, even though I don't own a dog. But hey, it was free.

Ok, so I've never actually requested a free sample of dog food, I'm not that crazy, and for the record, I'm not a hoarder either. But my husband did request a whole lot of something else.

I decided since there are more people reading this blog right now than usual, I thought it would be fun to do a give away.

Head over here and cast your guess and you may be the new owner of something far better than a free online sample. Trust me, I wouldn't be giving this away if it wasn't worth it.

Day 3

2011-08-17T07:38:00.000-06:00

Today is pattern Mixing.

Here's the look:

This skirt is kind of bold in and of itself, which is why I usually pair it with a simple cream or black shirt. But today, I decided this bright blue poke-a-dot shirt could be the ticket to a new look, and I think it worked. I just love this skirt, but I felt so limited in what I could wear with it. Now, the wheels are spinning with possibilities. The rule of thumb these days (at least in my book) is anything can go as long as it's paired with confidence. Isn't confidence generally the key to most things in life?

If this wasn't bold enough for you, just wait until tomorrow's look.

Day 2

2011-08-16T13:09:00.000-06:00

Tuck it in.

Here's the look:

Sometimes I feel like tucking in my shirt makes me look like an old lady, but after living in Washington, DC for two years, I realized tucking in your shirt just makes things look a little more classy, but maybe not a t-shirt...

I had to throw my scarf in with this outfit again, it went too well with my shirt not to. Two days in a row? At least it wasn't underwear.

Day 1

2011-08-15T06:11:00.001-06:00

Let the challenge begin.

Pick an item to remix.Plan on wearing it at least three times over the course of the challenge.
Bonus point if you can fit it in a fourth time.

I think I can handle that.

Here's the look:

Remix item: scarf.

I figured everyone remixes shirts, dresses, skirts, etc. why not do something a little different. Plus, it's easy to get comfortable wearing the scarf one way and one way only, ie. tucked into a belt, the new trend, why not find some fun ways to incorporate it into my outfits.

Thanks Grandma for leaving some of your accessories behind for me. True vintage at it's finest.

21 Day Challenge

2011-08-11T09:20:00.000-06:00

I've always loved a good challenge.

One that gets my creative juices flowing.

One that makes me think outside the box.

And one that involves fashion.

Challenge accepted.

Rarely do I try to come up with new outfits to wear, I know what works and what doesn't with what I own. I have my set outfits, I have pieces that I can mix and match, but I never try to come up with new things with what I have. Probably because I hate mornings and I'm always in a rush to throw something together before I head to the gym and work. But mostly, I'm just lazy.

When I read about this challenge, I instantly knew I wanted to participate. So, here's to getting out of my wardrobe funk, and feeling like I have a new wardrobe for the next 21 days, beginning August 15th.

Anyone want to join me in this little challenge? Just think prizes, goodies, and a new wardrobe.

Hello?

2011-07-20T12:58:00.006-06:00

I've missed this blog of mine. This blog, full of random musings of my single life.

I'm sure no one even reads, Naturally Me and My Natural Ways anymore. Obviously, they have nothing new to read. But even if there were new posts, I'm sure this blog has long since been forgotten, removed from Google Reader, and news feeds for anyone to even know it exists.

I've sent all my readers over to my next chapter in life, the chapter called, It's a Love(ll) Thing, where my hubby and I, ok, just me, exploit our world to yours.

But even so, I have a desire to resurrect this blog. For nothing more than myself. The experiences and memories that wrote this blog, they still exist, and they're still me. And I haven't gone anywhere.

Dreaming

2010-09-28T14:15:00.009-06:00

I have a lot of time on my hands to think. For some people, that might be a good thing. For me, not so much. When it comes to thinking, I tend to over think, and then over think the thinking that I just thought about. Not a good thing, ya think?

So what have I been thinking about lately? My dream life. And all of the things that my dream life would consist of.

Some days I wish I could just be an interior designer, and go to people's houses and decorate (on their budget of course). I had never really decorated a house before, until I did my own not too long ago, and I loved it, and want to do more of it.

I'd be a personal shopper too. I love fashion. I may not dress cute all the time, or have the most stylish up to date outfits to whip out of my closet. But regardless of old or new clothes, I love to shop. I love to make something new out of something old. I love being creative. And lately, I love dressing my husband, who, like it or not, needed some help in that regard.

I finally have my sewing machine on my premises, under my roof. It only took four years for us to be in the same place at the same time. And I'm loving it. I haven't really sat down to sew for so long, and now I wish I had all the time in the world to sew things. I've discovered this cute blog full of sewing ideas. I want to get my hands dirty with needle and thread.

And last but not least, i'd have all the time in the world to dedicate to health and fitness, two essential in life. And two things I'd need, because of all of the yummy treats that I'd be making in the midst of my perfect dream life, where I have all of the time in the world to do all of the things that I want.

Not retired yet

2010-08-23T10:00:00.003-06:00

Clearly I haven't posted on this blog since I got married, and thought I needed a "married" person's blog, It's a Love(ll) thing. Not sure why, since I highly doubt John will ever post anyway, but I thought it would be fun to start over, and start new. So I did. However, I wanted to post on this one anyway, because I kind of grew attached to this blog of mine. I was thinking back to past posts, and couldn't help but laugh about a few of them, particularly this one, especially because I'm starting a new job this week, and don't want that to happen again.

When John and I were dating, he got the privileged of hearing about this story, and still likes to bring it up quit regularly.

It's a good thing I married a dentist, I have a fear of this happening again.

Glad college football is back in action, and I get to go to another BYU game this year. This time, the BYU/TCU game, let's hope this doesn't happen again.

I love reading through past entries. It reminds me that I once used to blog about funny things. What happened? I'll try to work on that again.

A whopping 16 days

2010-07-26T16:38:00.003-06:00

We did it! It meaning making it to our wedding day, actually following through with the part that weds us, making it through a nearly perfect sealing, luncheon, and reception (perfect until my husband of 7 hours lost the keys, leaving us stranded at the reception for a whole five minutes little longer than planned), going on our honeymoon, spending 11 days in Hawaii (that's what I call a little bit of heaven), and then off to California for our open house.

Now, we're back in Utah, and I'm just on the edge of my seat with excitement for our upcoming, and semi-permament (three years permanent) move to Oklahoma City. Don't be jealous, you can come visit. We have a spare bedroom.

It's been a whirlwind summer. From quitting my job, getting engaged, moving to Oklahoma City, to planning a wedding, moving back home with my parents in Utah for a month, and buying a house. Then traveling back and forth between California and Utah, it's been one heck of a summer. And I've nearly loved every minute of it. Everyone keeps telling me now it's time to really grow up, and find some stability in my life, and you know what? For a change, I'm agreeing with them. I've enjoyed my summer break, but I'm ready to start making money again and feeling somewhat useful. So, here's to a new life ahead of me, one that doesn't just include me anymore. John keeps reminding me that things aren't just mine, they're ours now. Like when I, I mean we, got a check from our reception that had just MY name on it, I said sweet, I got money, to which he responded, you mean WE got money. I'm learning...

So, since Naturally Me and My Natural Ways was all about me, it's time to be all about us, that's how married life is supposed to go, right? Right, so I've taken it upon myself to start a blog that's about US, and not just ME. If you're dying to see wedding pictures, bridal pictures, and some Hawaiian loving fun, than you can check out OUR new blog. I'm sure it will be full of loads of excitment, trust me, we're moving to Oklahoma, and I just know excitement is awaiting our arrival.

And just so this post isn't entirely b-o-r-i-n-g, I'll add a picture of our wedding, in hopes of enticing you to read our new blog.

This has been a John approved message

2010-07-08T23:13:00.002-06:00

Only two more nights,

And one more day,

Until all of this becomes real...

55 roommates later...

2010-07-04T17:33:00.011-06:00

...and I finally get some consistency to life.

Six more days and I get to live with roommate number 55,

And this time, I get to stick with this roommate forever!!!

At last

2010-06-23T12:39:00.000-06:00

Multiple phone calls a day,

More dedication to our relationship,

Enduring through thick and thin,

Trying to find good in the distance,

Reinforcing feelings...

While trying to avoid other feelings,

Confidence in a decision,

Feeling anxious and excited about change

Communication, communication, communication,

It's key!

Long distance is not really awesome,

So, I'm glad it's almost over.

Almost.

A sign of a good guy:

Flowers to brighten my day.

And a week later they're still looking good!

The long awaited weekend finally came,

I can't believe we made it an entire month,

I never want to do that again.

Thankfully, after a weekend together, we only have to endure 3 more days apart.

And then...

We'll be married!

Wow.

Weird, yet exciting.

Yay for getting to hang out with him all weekend!

A walk down memory lane

2010-06-20T18:25:00.002-06:00

Sometimes I don't want to walk down memory lane, but with a small bribe, I'll nearly do anything, and last night proved my point. But I'll have you know, I didn't want to do it. You see, I'm living at home, yes, with my parents where I pay rent in love. So, naturally, I need money. And for all of you oh-so-avid blog readers, you've seen a glimpse into my life these last few years. So, this isn't for you so much, as it is for me.

What have I been doing with my life the past two years? Actually let's make it the last six years, since the ending of my high school days, back in 04'. Well, I went to BYU-Idaho, BYU-Hawaii, and graduated from BYU. In the interim I worked at fat camp. Yes, a legit fat camp, and I happened to have loved it (at least the reflecting on it part). I moved to Washington, DC in May 2008, and spent the last (almost) two years working for the United States Agency for International Development. And just for the heck of it, I'm just going to throw in there that I traveled to Africa for work, twice. And no, I never attended my five year high school reunion.

I'm not trying to brag or anything, but my life has been pretty great since those high school days, six years ago. But I'll have you know, last night sure made me feel like I've accomplished absolutely nothing. I may claim to be jobless, but that's not entirely true. I've been going catering on occasion, since I've been home, with the restaurant I used to work at in high school. I am beyond grateful to the Morley's for letting me come back and work for them for a few weeks. They're kind of like an extended family. Anytime I'm looking to make a few extra dollars, they're always more than happy to let me come back to work. So, I'm grateful, I really am. However, last night, I can't say grateful was my attitude.

You see, when I found out I was going to go catering at Hillcrest (my old high school), for the class of 2005 (the year younger than me), for their high school reunion (remember I said I didn't go to mine...to me, five years is just a little TOO soon to be going back to rekindle old friendships), I kind of cringed inside. For good reason too. It was beyond awkward to be serving people who would look at me and say, "Hey, I remember you. Didn't we have (fill in the blank) class together?" Or, "Hey, I didn't know you're STILL working here." Or there were the occasional, "Wow, I haven't seen you forever, how have you been?" questions. But I know deep down they were thinking, wow, you've sure done a lot with your life, I bet you're still living with your parents, too. I kept having to vouch for myself, and throw out there, "I'M GETTING MARRIED IN THREE WEEKS." And "No, I haven't been living with my parents for the last SIX YEARS, I've only been in Utah for a few weeks, and just needing to make a few extra dollars!!!" Or, "Oh, I've just been living in Washington, DC, working for THE GOVERNMENT" Thinking to myself, I promise I have/had a life.

Never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine I'd feel like I had to impress people from high school all over again. This time, I wasn't trying to impress the seniors, I was trying to impress the people younger than me. Make them think I'm cool. That I have a life. That I've moved on from Utah, and made something of myself. That I'm about to get married to a really cool guy, and we're about to have a really cool life. And good for them for already being married, and having kids, because I'm going to be doing that, too. But I had fun in the meantime. So there!

Yeah, it was an awkward night for me. But thanks to working at Joe's, I think they thought I was pretty cool. I mean, I'm pretty good at putting a dollop of hot fudge on the mud pie, and dumping more potato salad into the chafing dish. It takes some serious skill.

So, like I said, sometimes I really don't want to walk down memory lane again, especially at a high school reunion that's not even for my class. But, for a small price, sometimes I just have to swallow my pride and bite the bullet. So I swallowed and bit it, bit it hard.

Fathers

2010-06-20T14:10:00.010-06:00

Not only did I get to spend Mother's Day at home with my lovely Mother, but today I get to spend Father's Day with my amazing Father, whom I love DEARLY. Pretty sure I have the best parents in the whole wide world. And yes, I'm aware that that may sound cliche, but cliche or not, it's the absolute truth.

Does your dad travel all over the world to visit you? (so I haven't lived all over the world yet, but knowing that he visits my brother in Sweden, it proves my point...plus, his future visit's to Oklahoma City might be considered international, it's a whole new world over there)

Does your dad run 5K's, 10K's, and half marathon's with you?

Does your dad wash your car every Saturday morning AND fill it up with gas?

Does your dad surprise you by flying all the way to NYC to hang out with you and your sibling, and then take just YOU to a broadway play of YOUR choice?

Does your dad light up when all of his children are home?

Ok, he probably does that, because what good father doesn't love having his children around?

So, even if your dad doesn't do these things that mine so graciously does, I'm sure he's still a pretty great guy. But my dad, he's more than great, he's amazing, and I love him.

Happy Father's Day, Dad, I LOVE you!!!

Weekends

2010-06-18T14:02:00.004-06:00

I'll be spending next weekend here:

But right now, I wish I was spending my weekend here:

Yay for Fridays, and getting to see my fiance in ONE week...I've almost made it, phew!

Rejuvenation

2010-06-16T15:10:00.004-06:00

Spending a night with friends (some I haven't seen since I was in high school),

Was like medicine to my soul.

And now, my soul has been rejuvenated.

I never knew I could be so excited to receive "kitchen goods,"

But last night proved it could happen...

My smiles are legit, not just posed ones for the camera, promise!

Futball

2010-06-11T11:45:00.003-06:00

The World Cup starts today, and while I'm not as into soccer as some people, the fact that I used to play when I was younger, I played on an intramural team in college (and boy were we horrible but it was sure fun!), AND the fact that the World Cup is being held in South Africa, makes me feel like I should be somewhat committed to watching this year. Exactly a year ago today I was in South Africa and saw first hand a few of the big stadiums where the games will be played. How I miss Africa. The people. The culture. The smiles.

South Africa:

They've been anticipating this day for awhile now...

And, just because this commercial is awesome and I have a Nike fetish...

30 Days

2010-06-10T12:36:00.007-06:00

For the next 30 days I get to hang out with this little one and his chubby little cheeks:

In 29 days I finally get to see him again:

And in 30 days from today, I'll be marrying this one:

July 10, 2010 coming right up!

Back In Time

2010-06-03T18:04:00.005-06:00

I stepped foot on the track, and from first sight, everything appeared just the way I had left it six years ago. The track felt good under my feet. It felt natural and like I belonged. Running up and down the stadium steps brought back memories from years past. During my laps around the track I found myself instinctually flying over the imagined hurdles placed in my path. My form was slightly off, but nothing a few more attempts couldn't perfect. I saw myself stretching on the grass, in the exact spot I always sat, after a long and tiring practice. And then I saw myself giving up, quitting, putting track in my past, and forgetting that I could have been good. Instead, I decided to turn my back and walk away. I had the speed, the form could have always been improved, but the speed was there, and that's what mattered. That's what won races. But I gave up. I decided it wasn't for me. And I decided to move on to other things, like wishing I was no longer in high school, and longing for the college life.

As I ran around the track, ran up and down the stadium steps, and imagined myself back in high school, my mind couldn't help but think of the way my life used to be. Of who I used to be. And where I've come in life. Six years ago I never would have imagined I'd graduate from BYU. Six years ago I never would have imagined I'd have spent a summer working at fat camp in California, lived in Hawaii for a summer, or made some of the best friends a girl could ever ask for. Six years ago I never would have imagined I'd go work for the government in Washington, DC, and then travel to Africa for work. Six years ago I never would have imagined my sister and I would become roommates for two years, after not having lived together for nearly eight years. And six years ago I never would have imagined I'd quit my job, go live in Oklahoma for a month, and then move in with my parents, jobless but engaged. Six years ago I never would have imagined my life would have taken the course it has. But six years ago I wasn't who I am today, and I'm glad it's taken me six years to semi-figure out a few things in life, like how to work hard, how to go after my dreams, and how to believe in the impossible. And most recently, I've learned how badly it sucks to not be working and making money. (I hate feeling like I'm on a budget!) I'm definitely missing my monthly income, but I know that good things are ahead of me, and patience is a virtue. That's one thing, that six years later I'm still trying to figure out. Patience has never been my strong point in life. Maybe in six more years I'll be closer to incorporating it into who I am.

Life after high school is great, and although I enjoy going back to my old stomping grounds and utilizing the track and stadium steps, I'm glad I never have to relive those days again. Somethings are meant to stay strictly in the past, and for me, high school is one of those things.

Other things however, are ok to reemerge. So, because I'm going back in time in this post, I'm including this picture, from two years ago. (don't be mad sister)

It just makes me laugh!

Another goodbye

2010-05-30T22:22:00.006-06:00

I may have been in a long distance relationship for the last six months,

But I was spoiled in my long distance relationship,

Because I still saw him every two weeks.

And now, after spending a little over a month together,

It's back to long distance again.

This time, I won't see him for an entire month.

Aw, poor Amy, I know, it's a rough life.

But hey, I'm feeling sorry for myself,

Because life's just not as fun when he's not around.

To-do Lists

2010-05-25T23:30:00.002-06:00

What happened to the days of

Scrunchies and jelly shoes?

Recess and nap time?

Smurfs and My Little Pony?

Four square and double dutch?

What happened to the days of being a kid, where I never had a to-do list?

Now it's,

Working (or the lack thereof) to pay the bills,

And acting responsible towards life's responsibilities.

All things that aren't necessarily bad things,

Just different things than in my younger years.

And I have a feeling I'm just beginning to know what true responsibility really entails.

Despite the reality that some things in our adult life aren't always fun,

And being a kid generally was always fun,

Yesterday, I think John and I figured out the best of both worlds.

Mixing a little bit of responsibility with a little bit of play.

Our agenda/"to-do" list, consisted of the following:

Mattress shopping (oh boy)

Dropping John's car off to remove the HUGE screw that was stuck in his tire,

Sam's Club membership (sadly, they don't have Costco here, and there IS a difference),

Bought John a new suit for the wedding,

AND new shoes,

And I may be biased, but he looks REALLY good in it!

Massages by people who don't speak english (Ah-mazing),

Getting kicked out of tennis courts,

Then driving aimlessly for over an hour trying to find legit courts to play on

Before we could FINALLY play a few games of tennis,

Picked up John's car,

And then, if all of that wasn't enough, we ended the day by buying a new house...

Well, almost...

At least we FINALLY got a house under contract.

And when I say it's new, I only mean it's new to us,

Because it was built in 1925,

But it's a rather adorable old, vintage, renovated little house.

And I can't wait!

(praying everything moves along smoothly now)

I may not have recess or playing double dutch in the middle of my day to look forward to anymore,

But I guess "to-do" lists can always have a little bit of fun incorporated into them.

From Fittest to Fattest

2010-05-24T22:03:00.003-06:00

Anyone who knows me knows I'm a fitness fanatic...at least I was until I moved to Oklahoma City. Not having a gym membership, and semi-giving up running, doesn't make working out easy. However, it does give ease to going insane. Yes, it's true, I have an addiction to working out. And when I can't do it, I just feel... well, blah is the only word that comes to mind. So blah it is, and I simply don't like it. In my defense, I've had to force myself into a hiatus from working out, doctor's orders of course (clearly not mine, since I am getting married in 46 days), until the mono subsided. I still think it's lingering, but I'm making my way back into the workout regime nevertheless. And how could I not, after talking to an old friend/co-worker, about this article, that states that I just moved from the fittest city, Washington, DC, to the fattest city, Oklahoma City, in the US. If that's not motivation enough to get my lazy butt out of bed, and strap on my running shoes to get in a good work out, than I don't know what is? So, tonight I made John come on a run with me through the city. We ran to the capitol and back...I wanted to feel like I was back in DC for a brief second, where the fit kids live, and it worked. However, only seeing two, yes TWO, people out running on our 50 minute run, made me feel far from being back in DC. So, I guess I might as well face up to reality, I live with the fat kids, but I'm not about to get fat. I guess that's what happens when you live in a city that forgot to lay down sidewalks, doesn't have a river to run along, and running along a freeway overpass just isn't quite as scenic.

Maybe I'll have to start up my fat camp sooner than I expected, and that wouldn't be such a bad thing...

No Place Like Home

2010-05-17T08:38:00.003-06:00

No matter where I live in the world, and no matter how much I love where I'm living, there's always something nice about being "home", in a place that's so familiar, and so comforting. I don't ever see myself ending up back in Utah, but despite that fact, I love to be home, sleeping in my own bed, having home cooked meals (not made by me), and getting to spend time with my parents.

Favorite things about last weekend:

FINALLY finding a wedding dress
Figuring out most of the wedding plans...and the wedding is still 2 months away,
Wedding planning is a breeze (heavy sarcasm included)
Sleeping in until 11 almost every day (having mono allows for laziness)
Spending Mother's Day with my Mom
Hanging out with good friends
Spending every afternoon with my Dad...it was nice not having him really work last week
Eating Dunford chocolate cake donuts...my favorite
Working at Joe Morley's for a night...why not make a few extra bucks on vacation?
Spending Mother daughter night at Tai Pan...love that store!

Oh, there really is no place like home...I'll be back in a few weeks!

R.I.P. Okie and Acron

2010-05-10T14:52:00.003-06:00

I just received the most tragic text message from my roommate:

"Can I ask you a questions? How attached were you to those frogs?"
And I instantly knew they were gone. Between the three of us, in our house, there exists, two dogs, a cat, and the recently departed Okie and Acorn. I'd be lying if I said it was no big deal. Heck, they're just frogs, right? And let's be honest, it took me an entire week of being in Oklahoma to even realize that the little guys were still at John's house. It's true, I forgot about them, after I was so adamant that if I was moving to Oklahoma, so were they. I knew they'd survive the trek.What I didn't know is that Lord Bryron, the feisty little cat, would be the cause of their death. I'm glad I'm not there have to see it first hand.
So sad...she said she'd get me more, but it just won't ever be the same. It's like saying you're going to replace a child, some things are kind of irreplaceable...ok, maybe it's not exactly the same, but pretty darn close.
R.I.P. little guys!!

Mother's are a girls best friend

2010-05-09T08:38:00.004-06:00

If there is one woman in the world I wish I could be more like, it's her:

She's beautiful, and one of the most selfless, thoughtful, giving, talented, and patient woman I know. I've always said if I can be half the mom she is, I will feel very accomplished in life. I already know my future children will rather play with her than they will with me. She's incredible! I don't know how I got so blessed to have her as a mom, but she's definitely one of my many blessings in life that I wouldn't trade for the world. Mom, thanks for being one of my best friends, always answering the phone when I call, even if it's the 10th time that day, for listening to me when I need someone to talk to, for being a shoulder to cry on, and someone I know I can always laugh with. I think you are amazing, and I'm so lucky to be your baby girl.

I love you!!!

Total Eclipse Of The Heart

2010-05-06T10:01:00.004-06:00

If any of you haven't seen the show Glee, I HIGHLY suggest it. That is, if you like singing, dancing, and quiet frequently cheesy plots. I so happen to love all of those things, and from day one of this show airing last year, I have quickly become obsessed. I have my favorite songs that I love listening to over and over again, but this song, from this weeks episode, has topped my list of all time favorites. Probably because it took me back to my younger years, and I longed to be back in ballet again. John said he's support me in taking classes after we get married. I think he just likes the idea of me being in a leotard with a tutu...

A little thing on love

2010-05-05T08:26:00.008-06:00

It's funny how 9 months ago, while sitting at work, talking to one of my friends/co-workers, discussing our dating lives, our "love" interests, and all that is entailed in that oh-so-fun aspect of life, the last thing I said to him, before walking away from that conversation, was this, "I don't believe in love." To which he responded, "And so begins your love story." Knowing me, I probably rolled my eyes at him, and made some snide remark. Little did either one of us know, that that's exactly what happened next, my love story began to unfold, and will continue to do so forever and ever.

Had someone told me that the boy from the computer labs, back in my BYU days, would one day be my fiance, and soon to be husband, I probably would have acted a lot faster. That is, after laughing at them for telling me that he was going to be my husband, considering he and I had never talked, and our lives were both taking us to very different places in the world. But some miraculous way, when things are meant to be, God finds a way for them to work out, even when we think it to be impossible. I have no doubt in God's abilities to bring to pass great things, miraculous things even. I have no doubt in His ability to know each of us so well, that sometimes our lives have to take a different course than we may have expected, but it's all for our own good, our own growth, and our own understanding. And when we're ready, He will bless us with blessings that we don't always deserve, but that we're privileged enough to experience. For me, love has become one of those blessings. And surprisingly enough, my love story has turned out just the way I had hoped for, but far from how I ever expected it to be.

I may be stubborn at times, opinionated, impatient, and demanding on occasion,

and because of that, I don't always feel like I should be so lucky and deserving. But for some reason, despite my weaknesses, God has let a good thing happen in my life, and that good thing is him:

I may have claimed to not believe in love a few months

ago, but if you'd ask me that same question today, I'd happily say, that it's amazing how one person can change my mind and make me think differently. I'm in love, I believe in love, and I can't wait to spend forever with with man I love!

OKC vs DC

2010-05-04T10:30:00.002-06:00

It's been over two weeks since I made the trek out to Oklahoma City, and I have to say it's a little miracle the transition has gone so well. Not that I ever doubted it wouldn't go well, but knowing I was coming from DC, to OKC, it had me worried, I'll be honest. I've never thought I was better than OKC, but in my mind, I was just coming from DC, the nations capitol, a fast paced society where you can never get bored, even if you try. I knew I was coming to a place that even the locals say is "boring", so naturally I wondered what the transition would be like. I was worried that DC had made me into a girl that had to have every resource possible at the tip of my fingers. I was worried that DC had spoiled me into giving me everything I ever wanted. DC had made me into a classy girl, although not nearly as classy as the rest, but I still tried to keep up. I was a girl who thrived off of a fast paced society. And while all of this may have been/still is true, I'm discovering a new me that is about to emerge. One who went from saying, "Let's go shopping and have dinner in Georgetown," to "I'm fix'n to head right so into town tonight, if ya'll want to join." It's a new way of speaking, but I'm never opposed to new things, you know, the finer things of life. I went from a work environment that talked sex, HIV and AIDS, to being a health coach at OU last week. Instead of telling people to lay off of the promiscuity, I tried to convince the extremely overweight Oklahoma population to lay off the fried okra and fast food, that so conveniently lies on every street corner. I went from paying a pretty little penny for rent, to live in a house with five other girls, to paying for an entire summer's worth of rent, for less than one month's rent in DC. Now there's some food for thought? Why didn't I move sooner?! I went from wearing a suit to work (ok, so I rarely did that but it wouldn't have been weird if I did every day), to knowing that if I put on some cowgirl boots and a hat, and walked around town, it wouldn't be weird, or extremely out of place. I went from having a mall, plus a million other stores, just down the street from me, to not actually knowing where the closest mall is. So, needless to say, I have a lot of new things to learn out here. A new way of life to get familiar with. A new way of thinking. And a new way of talking, to say the least...

July 10, 2010

2010-04-19T08:29:00.005-06:00

Major allergies to Spring,

on top of
Major food allergies,
then add
Mono to the mix,
and for the heck of it
Why not get engaged and drive across country pulling a 6x12 trailer?

Since my part-time job doesn't start until next week,
I'm following doctors orders,
Sleep
Sleep
Sleep
And taking it easy for awhile.
Oh, let the adventures begin!

T minus Three Days

2010-04-13T13:53:00.003-06:00

I didn't serve a mission, but maybe this is what a mission feels like? After spending two years somewhere and really getting to know the culture, the people, my surroundings, the ins and the outs of the city, I have to pack up and leave, wondering what it will be like the next time I come to this place as merely a visitor, not a resident. It's bittersweet. No matter how excited I am to move on with my life, and begin an entirely different journey, there are still moments when I have to remind myself that the sweetness in my journey ahead is all that matters right now. But it's never easy to say goodbye. It's never easy to move on from what is so familiar. And it's most definitely never easy to leave family behind, knowing I will never get back the experiences and time I've had while living with a sister, and having another one just an hour an a half away. One can always replace a favorite shirt, or a new pair of shoes, but replacing time with family is simply irreplaceable. Come Friday, I will probably be an emotional wreck, as I turn and say goodbye and close the door behind me, on my Fort Scott Drive house, one last time. How sad it will be to close the door and walk away, leaving DC and the memories behind. I have no doubt that this is what I'm supposed to be doing, and let's face it, love makes us all a little crazy at times. So, despite what some may think, I'm following my heart, and I'm doing what I know to be the best decision I have really ever had to make thus far in my life. The memories of DC will always be with me, and DC will always hold a special place in my heart. I've had more experiences than I ever thought possible in just two years, and I know I'm a better person today because of them. Two years flies by, and even with a room full of packed boxes, I'm having a hard time believing the end is here. But it is, and that's that. Thankfully I didn't have to vanish too quickly, and I got to enjoy one of the best things DC has to offer, the cherry blossoms! I love DC. I may have not always acted like I love it out here, but in retrospect, DC is a unique place, and I know that no matter where I end up in life, nowhere will be quite like the place I've called home for the last 713 days.

4 More Days...

2010-04-09T11:44:00.002-06:00

...until I slip into mini-retirement.

Today is my last Friday of EVER working in the District.

WHAT?

It's weird,

exciting,

sad,

blissful,

odd, and

stressful

all at the same time.

So, what am I going to do with all the time on my hands, you may ask?

Well, I have a feeling my mini-retirement will be far from relaxing.

But that's ok,

because other exciting things will keep me occupied

and I'll forget I'm not getting a paycheck every two weeks.

I guess that's the one and only downside to not having a job.

I like making money.

Oh Oklahoma, the fun times we have ahead of us!

Happy Easter

2010-04-04T20:12:00.001-06:00

OKC or Bust

2010-03-31T13:21:00.004-06:00

When everything around me seems to be crashing down and coming to a halt, there’s another story in life that’s just beginning. Although its pages haven’t all been written yet, the introduction is beautiful enough to encourage me to keep writing. Keep moving forward. And to keep on smiling, even when the unknown lies ahead. The unknown that’s scary and full of change, change that I wonder if I’m ready to face.

I’ve had a love/hate relationship with DC these past two years. I’ve loved everything about my experiences, my jobs, my life, and my many adventures here. But there was part of me that easily found things to hate, to complain about, and to think were just plain awful. All of those things basically had to do with the reality that I had to grow up. I have such a tough life, I know. I was queen of the typical the grass is greener on the other side, type attitude. In hindsight, let me put it rather bluntly, my life has been pretty darn awesome. I should be jealous of my own adventures I’ve had these last two years from being in DC. I, in fact, am jealous of myself and what I’ve seen, done, and experienced. I’ve been living a glorified life, I’ve been rather spoiled, and I’m ok with that. So, although I’m only two years into this post-college life of mine, and expected to be an east coaster for just a little bit longer, it looks like the mid-west is calling my name, and my time here is coming to an end, an April 16th end. My two weeks are now in, and it's official, I’m moving to Oklahoma City to be closer to this one.

If anyone has any connections there, don't be shy, I need a job!!!

Here's to a Great Week

2010-03-29T13:07:00.008-06:00

I don’t know why I have particular moments in life when I tend to make it hard for myself to be happy. But I have them, probably more of them than I should. I complain, mope around, throw myself pity parties, and think the world is out to get me. No matter how great my life is, I seem to be fully capable of finding something minuscule to get in the way of my happiness. The grass is obviously greener on the other side, right? Well, of course it is, if I don’t want to wake up and face reality. But reality is reality, and there’s no escaping that fact. And reality is this, life is beautiful. No matter if I have a bad day, an off day, a rainy day, a day where I mess up and make mistakes, a day where I say things that I instantly regret, a day that is simply too overwhelming, a day where I just don’t have a brain, or just the opposite, and a day where I think WAY too much. Life is still beautiful, and meaningful, and purposeful, and worth being happy for, no matter what.

This morning I woke up happy—as happy as I can be after waking up—because this is going to be a good week, and here’s why:

1. My travel writing class (yes, the same one that I was REALLY excited for) is finally going to be OVER!!!
2. John comes out to visit
3. General Conference begins this weekend
4. Cherry blossoms are supposed to be at their peak of blooming
5. Easter is on Sunday
6. It’s going to get into the 80’s multiple times
7. Hopefully on Friday the doctor’s will FINALLY have some answers for me and my awesome health
8. Baseball season starts
9. Another four day work week for me!
10. And did I mention he’s coming out to see me?

Not that I have to have a list of things to look forward to in order to make me happy, happiness is a choice, and I can choose to be happy even if thing's aren't always awesome in life. But lists sometimes help, and this week, I like what's going on. So, here's to a good week, a week full of sunshine, nice weather, and a handsome boy coming to visit me.

An Ode to my Mother

2010-03-24T08:38:00.004-06:00

My Mom is one of my best friends.

I call her nearly every day,

just to chat,

to ask for her advice,

to listen to her chat,

or to get a good laugh in,

because I just never know what's going to come out of her mouth.

She always makes time for me,

which can sometime be a daunting task, I'm sure.

She's the most thoughtful and selfless person I know,

and I hope one day I can be half the Mom she is,

because she's simply amazing.

Happy Birthday Mom!

I sure love you.

My Thoughts Exactly...

2010-03-24T08:19:00.004-06:00

My dear mother forwarded this to me and my sisters the other day:

"Let me get this straight. We're going to be gifted with a health care plan written by a committee whose chairman says he doesn't understand it, passed by a Congress that hasn't read it but exempts themselves from it, to be signed by a president who also hasn't read it and who smokes, with funding administered by a treasury chief who didn't pay his taxes, to be overseen by a surgeon general who is obese, and financed by a country that's broke.

What the hell could possibly go wrong?"

Wow, isn't our government is awesome!

From Sea to Shining Sea

2010-03-22T07:48:00.005-06:00

From the east side to the west, I've got it covered. California one day, running a half marathon in DC the next...let's just say I waste no time sitting idly by. Ok, not true in the slightest, but it's fun to pretend that I don't have a lazy bone in me.

The West side:

San Francisco twice

Eating loaves of sourdough bread

Burgers a Red's Java House, the best burgers in the city!

Lunch at The Spinnaker...delish!

Ghirardelli Square, a chocolate lovers heaven

Walking across the Golden Gate Bridge

Visits to Sacramento and Oakland Temple

Picnic at the lake

Runs along the river

Sleeping in

Delicious home cooked meals

Late night walks

Sunny warm weather

Spending time with a certain someone

Four solid days of NO work

There's nothing quite as exhilarating as a vacation, I already knew would be great, turning out to be even better than expected. And that's exactly how last weeks trip to that golden state turned out to be. Why is it that life just seems better when I'm in California?

And the East Side:

A brutal 13.1 mile run with my dear old Dad
(Who beat me by 7 minutes...what did I expect?!)

Even if he always beats me at any race we do together, it's special daddy daughter bonding time nonetheless, and I love that it's our thing to do. Thanks for coming out to run with me Dad, I sure love you! And Lisa, thanks for training with me!

Spring Break

2010-03-12T11:15:00.006-07:00

Last weekend I headed to Philly to spend the day with a good friend, and to make amends for not having visited her since she moved to the east coast back in August. Sorry Steph! I love spending time with good friends. Friends who you don't have to talk to everyday, but you can still pick up right where you left off with the last time you were together. Steph is one of those friends. Which naturally makes sense since, as college roommates, we'd spend countless nights engaged in sing-a-longs as we stalled going to bed. For some reason, that just builds a special bond! Thanks Steph and Ben (her fabulous husband) for a perfect day spent in Philly, and for treating me to lunch AND dinner! Let's do it again soon, but next time it's on me!

(I know what you're thinking, but rest assured, the nasty hippie hairstyle has finally been resolved)

Naturally this weekend I have another trip planned. I should stop calling them vacations, since they've become such a regular routine of my life. Vacations - or what have you - they just make life more exciting. This time, it's off to Sunny California I go, to spend time with this one, on his stomping grounds.

He's been to mine, so I guess it's fair for me to finally make it to his. And if I'm lucky, he'll take me into the city, where my heart never stops smiling.

Upper 60's, low 70's all week, I think I'll be in heaven.

Taking Chances

2010-03-05T08:22:00.004-07:00

One thing I've learned from the travel writing class I've been taking is this, no one really cares what we have to say, unless it's family, close friends, or a significant other. So, with that being said, and although everyone who reads my blog most likely falls under one of those categories anyway, if you don't feel like reading "deep thoughts by Amy" below, I won't be offended.

Life is hard, it's scary, it's challenging, it's full of ups and downs, and smooth sailing after getting out of, sometimes, the roughest of currents. But through thick and thin, life is rewarding, life is awesome, and life is full of so many opportunities that should be seized upon, if we'd only be willing to take chances.

If there's one thing I've learned in my 24 years of life, it's that no matter what decisions I make, no matter what dumb things I choose to do, and no matter what the outcome may be, good or bad, there is always a lesson to be learned and personal growth to follow. So, why do I still make it hard on myself to make decisions, to take a leap of faith, and to trust in the Lord for what he has in store for me, knowing that no matter what, I'll grow from my decision? "Look unto me in every thought; doubt not fear not" D&C 6:36 It's a simple phrase but contains a powerful message. If everything I do, I do it until the Lord, there's no room to fear, to doubt, to question, to worry, or to stress about the decisions I'm trying to make.

Sometimes I think I'm too good at being cynical, too good at trying to see through things, and find fault, and too good at finding a reason not to do something that I know will be hard. But where does that get me? Except in a miserable and selfish state of mind. Not somewhere I'm particularly aching to be. Yet I do it anyway, thinking maybe I'm protecting myself from hurt and pain, or disappointment and grief. But where will that ever get anyone, if we're always shying away from growing opportunities? A withered up ball of nothingness?

Life is about growth. Life is about serving others, not serving ourselves. Life is about finding happiness, and finding purpose and meaning behind what we do. By not doing hard things, making sacrifices, and taking chances, blessings can't follow, and I don't think we can really know true happiness that way. It's easy to be selfish and to do things merely for our own sake, without others in mind. As the youngest of four, I hate to admit that I've had/have my selfish moments in life. Sometimes I only have myself in mind, and want to know what's in it for me. Where is the good in that? Where is the growth? Where is the happiness?

So, in the words of Glee (who I may be obsessed with at the moment and actually did a remix off of Celine Dion's song)

What do you say to taking chances,

What do you say to jumping off the edge?

Never knowing if there's solid ground below

Or hand to hold, or hell to pay,

What do you say?

It's time to take more chances in life, to make more big decisions (as if moving to DC wasn't big enough), and to take a leap of faith and trust in the Lord, realizing that in the end, good or bad, it will all be worth it. And if you're wondering, NO, I'm not getting married!

A Walk Down Memory Lane...

2010-02-26T08:22:00.002-07:00

I've never been one to quote movies, unless it's a song from a movie, than it's likely I'll sing along, in an awful, out of tune kind of voice. I can't sing, I know it, but I do it anyway. Put words to music, and I somehow know every word, and for some reason think I always have to sing-a-long.

Over the last few days I've been catching myself quoting lines from theme songs from some of my childhoods finest...well, just one line in particular, "Get it right or pay the price."

Watching that reminded me of this show:

Which escalated into me watching all of the following,

For memories sake of course:

How I miss the days of awesome T.V. shows.

T.G.I.F!!!

Guess Who's Back?

2010-02-23T09:32:00.003-07:00

He may only be back for a week, but a week's a week, and I'll gladly take whatever I can get.

I've been beyond excited once I learned my brother was coming into town for work a few weeks back. There's nothing I love more than spending time with my siblings, and last night, it was time well spent. Living on the east coast just isn't the same anymore without my brother around, and soon Brittany and Brian are going to follow suit and pack up and leave the east coast too. It seems my family is fleeting from the east coast one sibling at a time. First Rob, now Brittany. So, I guess the real question is, who will be next to pack our bags and leave DC, Andrea, or Me? Or will we leave...

Sibling dinner July 2009:

Sibling dinner February 2010:

Our family dynamics are slowing changing, one baby at a time.
Lorena and Michael, we sure missed you two.

Aunt Mays

2010-02-18T19:38:00.005-07:00

As the youngest of four, I've never known what it's like to have a younger sibling to care after. The fact that a younger sibling is foreign to me is probably what draws me to loving children so much, but not in a creepy Michael Jackson kind of way. Just in the kind of way that I love to fuss over them, hold them, adore them, and have them sink into my arms. So, needless to say, the day I became an Aunt, I was beyond excited to have a little child to love and adore, one who was actually part of my family. Being an Aunt is the closest I'll get to having a younger sibling, and I think this way is a little bit sweeter anyway.

These past two days I've gotten to play "mom" to my nephew while my sister is back at work, and I've loved every minute of it. It's definitely given me a new appreciation for motherhood, because it's sure a demanding job, but a job that's worth the hard work nonetheless.

My favorite part of hanging out with my nephew, having him fall asleep in my arms for three hours. I don't think there is anything quite as sweet and peaceful as holding a sleeping baby, especially one this cute!
Hanging out with James these past few days has sure made me miss this little one too.

I'm sensing a trip to Sweden is in the horizon.

Simply Adorable

2010-02-10T21:32:00.005-07:00

I may be slightly biased, because I'm the adoring aunt, but I dare you to look me in the eyes, and tell me they are not the cutest boys you have ever seen?!

I think I'm a pretty lucky aunt to have these two for nephews, too bad one lives far far far away, and the other is about to move semi-far away too. I guess that just gives me one more reason to keep up with my traveling habits and continue to vacation it up.
Sweden, Tennessee, I'm not picky!

Snow day #4.5

2010-02-10T17:31:00.003-07:00

Tomorrow begins snow day número cuatro.

I think this sums it up nicely:

...oh, boy!

Snow Day # 3.5

2010-02-10T08:38:00.003-07:00

"Wimps" is how my Dad would like to reference us for not having gone to work since last Friday. I just laugh, because really, who would have ever thought the east coast would get slammed like this? As a native Utahan, and someone who has seen plenty of snow in my day, I've had one snow day in all my life, it was back in fourth grade, and we had to make it up over President's Day. But I remember wishing for something like this to happen. For it to snow so badly that I'd be trapped indoors for a week, but it never did, and remained only a wish. I guess it was a good thing, adding a week on to the end of school to make-up the snow days would have been miserable. However, the onset of a bad snowstorm never made us Utahan's worried, the way it worries Washingtonians. In all of my years of living in a nasty snowy climate, I never would have imagined those wished for snow days so many years ago, would actually happen when I'm a working woman. And the beauty of snow days at this stage in life, I don't have to make them up over holidays, or spring break. For one I don't even have a spring break (quite the unfortunate thing about having a job), and secondly, make-up snow days just don't exist in the working world, and that's a beautiful thing.

Since I've been "trapped" indoors since last Friday, I've had plenty of pondering time to myself. Most recently, I've been pondering this fact of reality, I'm an adult, and I need to start acting like I have adulthood status. I was reading this article in the Ensign the other day, and it was this phrase that got me thinking, "Because many see marriage as the primary marker of adulthood, single individuals can feel they lack the ability to graduate into full adult status." I laughed after reading that sentence, and quickly agreed that, as a single adult, I don't always feel like an adult, or act like one either. So, I decided to make a list of reasons why I'm an adult, aside from the age factor, which is unfortunately an automatic qualifier. Unfortunate because sometimes I just want to think I'm always going to be my Daddy's little girl, and never have to really grow up.

What other reasons qualify me as an adult?

Well...

I have a full-time job
I live away from home, and have for the last 6.5 years
I make my own money, and can choose to do what I want with it
I travel to Africa for work by myself in month long increments
I own couches (that's an adult thing to say, right?)
I bought my dream car
I signed up for an extra curricular college course, because I wanted to
I make my own doctor/dentist appointments
I can eat cake or brownies for breakfast if I want, and won't get into trouble
I drive myself to church, and go on my own without being hassled by parents (instead I have a sister to do that job)
I clean up after myself
I pay bills, lots of them

I'm sure there are a plethora of other things that hang over my head on a daily basis, reminding me that I'm actually an adult, who has responsibilities, and has to act adultish, but that will suffice for now. Listing anymore will only exhaust me on how demanding my life really is. From snow days, to making money, traveling to Africa for work, buying grandiose accessories, and living far away from home, it's a tough life I live!

From one adult to all of you, happy Wednesday.
If you're on the east coast, happy snow day...again!!!

If You Wish Hard Enough...

2010-02-07T18:12:00.012-07:00

...It just might come true.

I wished for a snow day last week.

At least one more before winter finally disappears for a few months,
And on Friday, I got a partial one,
Which I would have been content with.

But dump over two feet of snow on us in 24 hours this weekend,
And a true snow day and work being cancelled tomorrow
Would be last weeks wish come true.

Getting paid to be a bum is quite
Undoubtedly the greatest arrangement one could ever ask for.

Even though the sun was out shining today,
Already melting the blizzard away,
Washingtonians think the east coast needs to be shut down for just one more day.
And to that I say, THANK YOU!

I won't push my luck thinking work will be cancelled
Three days in a row,
But we are expecting another snow storm on Tuesday and Wednesday.
You can be sure if that were to happen,
I'd have permagrin on my face all week long.

Church was cancelled today due to the blizzard,
So we went 19th century style
And had sacrament meeting at someone's house,
Walking through the madness to get there.
I don't love snow, or cold weather for that matter,
But walking through February's winter wonderland
Was simply fabulous.

Happy Snow day!

{thanks for some of the pictures, Lauren}

Partial is Better Than Nothing

2010-02-05T06:10:00.005-07:00

Right now it looks like this outside:

Two days ago I asked for a snow day when it looked like this...

...But I didn't get it.
However, today, when it looks like this outside...

...I'm getting my snow day,
Kind of.
Go figure!

The east coast is funny that way.
Sometimes they just have to think a storm is coming
In order for them to grant us lovely privileges.
Lovely privileges like working from home.
And being dismissed four hours early.
All thanks to a nasty storm that is about to break out mid-morning today,
And last through tomorrow night.

So, when my boss tells the office to telecommute if possible today.
You better be sure I jumped all over that bandwagon.
You don't have to tell me twice to work from home,
In my bed, while still in my pj's.
A bit of responsibility mixed with laziness, now that's my kind of work.

So, for the last hour, I've been "working" from my bed.
I wish my bed could be my office every morning.
But alas, I'm only granted this privileged once in a blue moon...
Or once every day the east coast has to freak out that we're going to get
"Pounded" by a nasty snow storm.
Bring on the storm, bring on working from home,
Bring on a partial snow day, and work being done at 1!!!
Happy weekend to us all.

The Heart of Winter

2010-02-03T07:09:00.004-07:00

Canceled flight, massive snow and ice storm, a rebooked flight not once, but twice, Will Rogers airport basically closed for two days, and a city nearly incapacitated by the weather, yet none of that was going to stop me from making it to Oklahoma City last weekend. So, to Oklahoma City I went, even if I had to endure a few slight hiccups along the way. I've adopted this motto from a friend of mine, "the more miserable, the more memorable," and memorable it was, thanks to the miserable weather that decided to throw a twist into my weekend.

In order to make my weekend possible, I flew into Dallas, where he was waiting for me.

After a night spent in Dallas, and a scrumptious brunch in the morning, we left just in time to make it safely back to Oklahoma City (we saw over 16 slide offs on the freeway), where we were nearly snowed in all weekend long. I welcome being forced to be lazy, miserable weather and all.

Although I've never been a fan of the cold, or snow for that matter, Phil says I have to endure 6 more weeks of this...

As long as winter promises to give me just one more snow day, I'll be ok with it.

Unfortunately, today was not one of those days.

Rain Rain Go Away, Come Again Another Day

2010-01-28T08:37:00.005-07:00

After much anticipation for my long awaited trip to Oklahoma City, (eight days to be exact), I find out that OKC is under extreme weather watch due to ice storms sweeping through the state. Flight cancellations and all...awesome!Perhaps I won't be going to OKC tonight. Not so awesome.

Routines

2010-01-25T08:50:00.016-07:00

Two weekends ago I was enjoying hanging out with this fine looking man:

This weekend I got to babysit this little guy,

Who can gladly fall asleep in my arms anytime he'd like:

This coming weekend I get to see him again.
4 more days to be exact.
Weekends never come fast enough, or last long enough either.

The following weekend will be spent fussing over him some more:

As luck would have it, the next weekend I'll be with him once again.
Surprised?

And to continue on with this lovely routine,

I'll spend the week after that babysitting him again for a few days.

I'm glad I have such an adorable distraction every other weekend:

Now the real question is, to keep this routine going,
Do we think I could convince him to come spend another weekend with me again...

... Before we head here for a week?

Whoever said dating long distance is hard, was sorely mistaken.
In fact, it kind of sucks, but at least we have good excuses to travel.
You can't go wrong there!
Thank goodness at least one of us has a full-time job.
I'll leave the books to him.

Looks like I have a new routine in place, and I think I'm ok with that.

356 Days Ago...

2010-01-20T10:34:00.004-07:00

...I stood in front of the Capitol and watched a moment of history unfold, as our 44th president was sworn into office. The first black president for the United States. People were happy, people were excited, and people believe that "change" was on it's way. A year later, I don't think America is feeling that same way they felt 365 days ago. Am I surprised? Surprisingly, no!

...I had never left the Northern America region. Never flow across the Atlantic. And never been to another continent. Heck, I didn't even own a passport. 365 days later, six countries can be checked off my list...it's not much, but it's a start.

...I was wishing one of my siblings would have a baby so I could be an aunt. 365 days later I got not one, but two adorable nephews.

...I was thinking that I'm 23 years old and wanted my own bedroom. As much fun as it can be sharing a room with my older sister, it's much more fun to have a room to myself. So, 365 days later I have my own room, in a mansion, with five other girls. It may be the coldest room in the house, but at least it's my own.

...I was probably thinking I was in need of a vacation. I'm always in need of a vacation! 356 days later I've had more vacations, more adventures, and more good times than I ever could have imagined. I love making money!

...I was reflecting on my college days, and thinking that that I was just about to finish up my last semester of college, and couldn't wait to be done with homework forever! 365 days later, I'm beginning my first post-college graduate course. It's only one class, but it's a class nonetheless.

...I was driving an American made car with an obnoxious blinker. 365 days later, I proudly sport a 4Runner, my dream car (minus the fact that it doesn't have a sunroof). And yes, a worldly possession such as this makes me happy.

...I was still thinking that the boy from my computer lab days at BYU, who had a girlfriend, and lived far far away, was cute. 365 days later, I'm now his girlfriend, yet he still lives far far away. Go figure!

...I was longing to be at the beach. 365 days later, the longing is still there.

The past 365 days have been full of change, adventure, and excitement, but also full of disappointment, hardships, and a wake up call to reality. A lot can happen in 365 days. I can only imagine what the next 365 days will bring.

Shiba Inu Temperament

2010-01-14T10:51:00.007-07:00

A phone conversation at work today went something like this:

Me: Hi, I'm trying to find an updated Post Call Forwarding list, the current one I have is from 2006
HelpDesk: We generally get our list off of the intranet, do you want me to direct you where to go?
Me: That would be great
HelpDesk: If you, {insert all of the links to get to said list}. Actually, why don't I just send you the link, that will be easier.

The email pops up in my inbox with this link:

HelpDesk: Ok, click on that link, then scroll down to the Post Call Forwarding link
Me: Um {pure confusion going on}...sorry, but where did you say you wanted me to go?
HelpDesk: Scroll down to the bottom where it says "Post Call Forwarding"
Me: Are you sure this is the right website? There's a picture of a dog...
HelpDesk: {After a long pause, laughter breaks out} Wow, my face just turned three shades darker.
Me: {Laughing hysterically on the other end...in fact, I'm still laughing}

It's good to know I'm not alone in wasting time while at work. Unless you consider reading, "Shiba Inu Temperament- The Good and the Bad", not wasting time?

Days of the Past

2010-01-12T13:19:00.003-07:00

12 days into the new year

19 days post Christmas

48 days since Thanksgiving

And 50 days since I've been back in the country

Which means:

50 days of feeling perplexed

48 days since I fulfilled a dream

19 days ago Christmas didn't feel like Christmas

and 12 days of realizing this year will be unlike any other

Change is in store, and that's a good thing!

Love is all you need

2010-01-08T07:30:00.002-07:00

I'm blogging again about work,

but not to tell you all that I'm headed back to Africa in the near future.

When I see things like this,

It makes me excited about what I do.

And makes me love organizations who are equally doing their part

To help out all of those who are infected with HIV/AIDS in Africa.

So, here's to you Starbucks,

For helping out a struggling Continent.

This video is slightly cheesy,

But, for your enjoyment,

Here are some renditions of,

"All You Need is Love"

Some are definitely more entertaining than others.

So, enjoy!

Where Am I?

2009-12-27T17:05:00.003-07:00

Which is more normal?
This:

Or this?I can't ever say I've eaten In-n-Out in 12 degree weather before,
Until last night anyway.
I'm not so sure what Utah's trying to become these days,
But I' think they've finally gone too far.

Soaring Through the Sky...

2009-12-22T16:55:00.006-07:00

A lot of people hate Delta right about now, a lot of east coasters anyway.

After the massive snow storm, Delta conveniently experienced delayed/cancelled flights, overbooked

flights, or no flights at all.

However, I some how bypassed all of the craziness and am happily sitting on the plane on my way home for the holiday's.

And the best part of all, I get to watch this on my flight while writing this post.

I love technology and I love BYU football!

But I'll be honest, I'll be pleasantly surprised if they actually win.

Love, The Candrians

2009-12-20T23:07:00.002-07:00

Thanks to my talented sister, here is another Candrian Family video.

Yes, be excited you get to view our lovely faces for the next 5 minutes.

I like to think we're a rather enjoyable bunch.

Winter Wonderland Part 2

2009-12-20T18:25:00.007-07:00

Well, the DC weatherman predicted correctly,

And those 8-12 inches of snow not only fell, but fell hard, and doubled in precipitation.

I may have not heeded the traffic advisories and stayed in doors yesterday,

But if you had a new car with four-wheel drive, you'd want to test it out in the snow too.

And test it out I did.

I love making smart purchases.

I wasn't too prideful in zooming past those small car people who were getting stuck in the snow though,

I'd just pull over to the side of the road, everyone would jump out, give a little push,

And we'd all be happily on our way once again.

Naturally, Washingtonians freaked out at yesterday's blizzard.

Church was cancelled.

Flights were delayed.

Lines at the airport outrageous.

Abandoned vehicles adorned the roads.

And even after a beautifully sunny Sunday,

With blue skies and not a cloud in sight,

Work, too, is cancelled for tomorrow.

Washington, I kind of love what snow does to you.

I'll gladly take being forced into a lazy state for one more day.

Just don't interfere with my flight home on Tuesday, or things might get ugly.

Winter Wonderland

2009-12-18T12:49:00.004-07:00

They say a storm is making it's way to DC tonight, leaving the city covered in white.

I may be a bit skeptical about this storm. Washingtonians are a bit extreme when it comes to storms, they freak out just thinking it might snow. But secrets out, I hope the predicted 8-12 inches that will blanket the city tomorrow is true. It's just not Christmas time without feeling like "I'm walking in a winter wonderland."

Christmas Miracle

2009-12-15T05:30:00.005-07:00

Have you ever had those moments when Friday night rolls around, you have options of festivities to choose from, and the only thing you want to do is crawl into bed, close your eyes, and go to sleep? Good, me too, and this weekend, that's all I wanted to do. Two weeks of constantly being tired is getting kind of old. So, crawling into bed, and finally getting a good nights rest, sounded like my ideal festivity. But, something told me I needed to go out and be social, even if it was against my will. So, I was good and complied.

An 11pm phone call rushed me home to the sight of this:

Thanks to our observant neighbors, we discovered our house was full of carbon dioxide. Awesome! Thanks to these studly firefighters, we learend that had we all stayed home last night, we wouldn't have woken up in the morning. Not so awesome!

Thank goodness for tender mercies and being alive! That's my kind of Christmas miracle.

Dreams Do Come True

2009-12-14T08:49:00.003-07:00

Jet lag,

Being back in the states for less than 24 hours,

An encouraging sister (and parents in their own way),

A need to get to Richmond, VA for Thanksgiving,

A childhood dream,

And the end result equals a big purchase.

What's a girl to do with all her money than make a childhood dream come true?

Good bye old!

Hello new!

My Thanksgiving/Christmas/Valentines/Easter/and Birthday present to myself!

I kept this big purchase from my parents until last weekend,

I wanted them to see my big purchase first hand.

My Mom's words, "Oh brother"

My Dad, he just wanted to drive it.

I think that means they approve.

One dream down, a few more in the works.

Froze

2009-12-11T07:44:00.004-07:00

Recently everyday I feel just like this...

I decided long ago, that wherever I end up in life, sunny, warm, pleasant weather must always be present.
Bitter, cold, miserable, numbing weather, just doesn't do it for me.

How Do You Cure ADD?

2009-12-10T13:33:00.009-07:00

Any ideas? I thought once I got back from being gone for nearly 6 weeks things would calm down, I’d revamp my life, and I’d be good to go for another 6 months or so, before I felt the need to start this crazy cycle all over again. Instead, since day one when I stepped off the plane from Africa and back onto American soil, I’ve been ON.THE.GO! No time for sleep, barely enough time to clean my room, and far too much time spent running from one place to the next. And then they tell me Christmas is a few weeks away, and my world gets all mumbled and confusing. I’m still trying to remember that Thanksgiving has come and gone, and is no longer coming, unless 11 months away is “coming”. I’m still trying to wrap my mind around the fact that it wasn't too long ago that I was basking in hot, humid, sunny weather, but hot, humid, sunny weather and all, it’s still December, it’s still the Christmas season, and I’ve just been slightly thrown off from enduring my various weather extremes. This isn’t a plea to pity me please, my life is hard, my life is stressful, my life is too demanding. It’s more a plea to ask time to slow down just a little bit so I can actually breathe in, rest up, calm down, and most importantly, CONCENTRATE. But at last, I suppose that’s what Christmas break is for, because time is not permitting otherwise. I’m here one second, gone the next. It’s tough growing up, when’s retirement?

Since November 25th I’ve been cold, freezing in fact. Why did winter have to roll in so quickly? The only time I feel warm lately is when I’m sweating at the gym, great visual, I know.

Thanksgiving, spent in the blessed town of Richmond, VA

Lauren and I at the National Christmas Tree Lighting. Hanging out with Obama, while the First Lady read to us" 'Twas the Night Before Christmas".

John came to visit, so we took a day trip up to the Big Apple, where enduring every form of awesome weather Mother Nature decided to shower us with was in full effect. Even in horrendous weather, the crowds never dwindle.

Beauty at it's finest.

I love Christmas time!